Mental Health Blog

SH🏳️‍🌈T SARAH SAYS ABOUT LIFE, LIFTING & SELF-LOVE

Named by one of our beloved members, this is where our founder, Sarah, peels back the BS and “I’m good” facade. As a trauma-informed personal trainer, she knows that showing the awesome, the ugly and the weird is all part of embracing who you are.

No fluff - it’s a little bit of training, a lot of mental health, and 100% real and unfiltered thoughts.

“I’ve had my share of struggles with body image and toxic diet culture. So I’m here to share my story and help you change yours.”

SARAH X

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Back to me

I was doing this, I had no idea fucking how, but I was. I wasn’t really back to ‘me’ yet, but I was on my way.

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Hey There Pain

“Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.”

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Fine, some of the time.

It’s not realistic to expect that one day, everything will just magically be OK and we will all live happily ever after without mental illness.

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Talk

A wise woman once told me that the most satisfying things in life are hard (lol) and she was bloody spot on.

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Spoonville

Joy, love, kindness…all that warm fuzzy shit…is what people need right now. And spoons.

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Stabby

Try not to be the dickhead that criticises someone else for how they’re coping.

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Miracle

Let’s have a change of tune and turn the tables on this mid-week mental abortion.

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Lockdown

There’s one thing I know for sure, this is definitely a cookie for breakfast kind of day.

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Coping

Just keep calm, and wear your fucking mask.

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Elephants

I'm not saying it doesn't suck, it abso-fucking-lutely sucks. But to a certain extent, we choose how much it sucks.

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Meaning

Find some meaning in the madness every day, or, if it's not immediately visible, fucking make it up.

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F🏳️‍🌈k

If you spent Lockdown #1 smoking crack and watching Housewives of Beverley Hills, well, this is your chance to not do that. Or, to watch the second season.

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Honour

Turns out that people love strong and passionate, until they realise that strength and passion can also be used against them.

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Control

The feeling of losing control of any important aspect of your life is like the plug being wrenched out and being left naked and cold in the bottom of the tub, wondering whether you should use your wash cloth to cover your boobs or vagina.

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Relevant

Nothing you do matters. I’m not being an asshole, I’m in the same boat, melting into a cold, muddy puddle with all the other #instagood ‘snowflakes’.

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dicks and stones

But does she fuck?

This comment and others like it are regularly showcased by popular social media page @you.look.like.a.man (YLLAM), using cleverly juxtaposed imagery of landscapes and flowers to directly contrast the ugly nature of the comments. The page features ‘trolls’ on accounts of women in strength sports, from elite to civilian, and brings to light the real problem of online bullying directed at women in the athletic space.

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undesirable

We are the same people who post booty burn workouts on Instagram and promote magazines with photos of Ashy Bines on the cover. We plug juice cleanses, keto, thigh gaps, and whatever is the fucking flavour of the #healthandfitness month. I don’t know what that makes us, but it is certainly not allied health professionals.

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fail

It’s so easy to write off an unsuccessful relationship, friendship, or job as being just a mistake and charging the fuck back onto Seek, Tinder, Grinder, or possibly Gumtree.

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isolation

Be the resilient motherfucker who emerges from #iso a stronger and better human.

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