Mental Health Blog

SH🏳️‍🌈T SARAH SAYS ABOUT LIFE, LIFTING & SELF-LOVE

Named by one of our beloved members, this is where our founder, Sarah, peels back the BS and “I’m good” facade. As a trauma-informed personal trainer, she knows that showing the awesome, the ugly and the weird is all part of embracing who you are.

No fluff - it’s a little bit of training, a lot of mental health, and 100% real and unfiltered thoughts.

“I’ve had my share of struggles with body image and toxic diet culture. So I’m here to share my story and help you change yours.”

SARAH X

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F*ck Motivation

You don’t have to be an aging psychopath trying to compete in two strength sports, but how about a walk or grabbing a mat and doing some stretches after a long day at your desk?

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Do it anyway

It's about feeling all of it, and choosing to show up anyway.

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The body keeps the score

What we can promise is this: we'll listen, we'll lead with kindness, and no matter how long you're here — whether it's a week or a decade — you'll feel welcome.

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All in, again

The external focus of training doesn’t define me anymore — it supports me.

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This is 40

What started as a bit of a “I’ll show you” turned into a hobby, then an obsession, then a complete life overhaul.

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The discomfort of joy

Somewhere deep down is the fear that if we let ourselves fully feel hope or joy — if we believe in it — then the fall will be worse.

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Content?!

If I were listening to someone describe MY life, I’d think it sounded pretty fucking incredible.

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4 years on…

Let’s take that second and head back to 2021 Sarah, who didn’t have it all figured out (and still doesn’t) but made one of the best decisions of her life…

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Doing The Thing

Being invited, feeling valued, like I actually belonged — meant more than qualifying ever could.

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One girl, two barbells

The biggest takeaway from this experience is that I found my joy for competing again. I felt worthy, I felt included, and above all I felt like I was capable of more.

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The only way out, is through

Use this injury as a test to work on your inner strength, which has a lot more relevance to the rest of your life than snatch and clean and jerk.

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Someone old, Something new

After initially feeling like an awkward loser, I decided to give less fucks and embrace my role as the guy who knows nothing.

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My Strength Journey: Part 1

Back then, my training sessions began and ended with a cigarette, smoked whilst driving the 1km to the gym down the road, which, even 20 years ago, was fairly unorthodox.

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Confessions of a Validation Seeker

I genuinely find comfort and reward in pushing myself to the point of burnout or injury, because this validates my need to feel like I’m doing enough, and that I am, in fact, enough.

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The Real F Word

My self imposed mission is to help people recognise their strengths, both physically and mentally, and embrace who they are without necessarily needing to see this effort and progress reflected in the mirror.

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